Boundaries with a Gaslighter
Boundaries with an Addict was one of my most read and referenced blogs. If you haven’t read it yet, please do so in order to better...
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Jun 29, 20215 min read
Broken by the Church
My heart is broken and I don’t know where to go from here. Let me explain. My last blog post was on not feeling safe at church. Other...
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Jun 22, 20215 min read
Will I Ever Feel Safe At Church?
Nothing like Covid-19 to screw up church attendance. But then again there’s Betrayal Trauma. As a faithful church attendee, I don’t...
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Jun 14, 20215 min read
Angry at God
This is a hard post to write but since this topic is so common with partners, who become filled with guilt, it's time. So, here we go.......
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Jun 4, 20214 min read
Gaslighting: the Epitome of Confusion
Am I really crazy? Did that really happen and I just don’t remember it? I could have sworn I saw/said/did ______ but I guess I was wrong....
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May 30, 20214 min read
Formal Therapeutic Disclosure: How to prepare and what to expect
Last time I talked about disclosure and its purpose. I also shared that having a verbal disclosure, one where information is...
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May 14, 20213 min read
What do I need to know about Disclosure?
Any time there has been sexual betrayal it is wise to have a disclosure. If there is no chance of the marriage or relationship surviving,...
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May 7, 20214 min read
What Is Sex Addiction? (Trigger Warning)
Often people think that if you are a sex addict, it simply means that you have a high sex drive. Or that you have had an affair while in...
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May 3, 20214 min read
Trusting after Betrayal, part 2
**POTENTIAL TRIGGER WARNING** What does that look like when you don’t stay with your partner and move on into a new relationship? As a...
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Apr 28, 20214 min read
Trusting After Sexual Betrayal, Part 1
Partners of Sex Addicts (SA) or those who have Problematic Sexual Behaviors, have had their trust demolished by the one who was supposed...
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Apr 28, 20214 min read
Boundaries with an Addict
Boundaries with an addict....this is a question I get asked. A lot. What do they look like? How do I keep them? When referring to an...
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